STALKERS / PERVERTS / VOYEURS


I travel by bus and train. I personally like to observe other peoples reactions, body language, facial expressions, attitudes and other factors associated with that person because of my career path and studies of social care this is very important as well as keeping on guard for swine flu and terrorist activity i am very observant.

MEN

One thing i have noticed many a times a day and sometimes become infuriated by is men and boys staring at women or girls, watching them walk away, looking at breasts instead of faces and sometimes with young boys conversations degrading women and there looks.
My comment is please shut up!!!! and don't do it so obviously!!!!



I am 20 years of age and have found this directed at my self on a number of occasions even (trying) to be 'chatted' up by a group/ yes group of 16-17 year old, on my way home sitting in a deserted city centre at a bus stop minding my own, when they turned up and started. This irritated the hell out of me even after explaining my age and that they had no chance, they persisted.
Now usually i can take it and would be happy to stand there and ignore, laugh or tell them to shut up, but They were so infuriating and because there was no one around i had to leave the bus stop, i was angry about this though, The closest refuge was a casino offering free cups of tea Mmmm. Good in one sense bad in another.

Now i am not saying that looking and talking in particular are that bad after all its natural!!

But!!

I am recently beginning to think i am being stalked, i already had a warped view of many anyway, but this is not the first or second time i have been concerned about this

Coincidence? or stalker? i do not know, But there is one boy that is everywhere staring at me, crossing over the road towards me. Even turning up in the library!! Hmm.
http://www.contactmusic.com/news.nsf/article/stalker%20reports%20spears_1037453
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8025664.stm
http://www.scottish.parliament.uk/business/research/pdf_res_notes/rn00-58.pdf
http://www.mhsc.nhs.uk/pages/About%20the%20Trust/Departments/Service%20Governance/Policies%20and%20Guidelines/Stalking%20Guidance%20for%20Staff.pdf